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How
can EFT help you to get the life you want?
Emotional Freedom Techniques, usually abbreviated to EFT, is a recently
discovered, revolutionary and rapidly growing form of personal development,
healing and therapy. EFT is based on the discovery that imbalances
in the body's energy system have profound effects on one's personal
psychology, mental and physical well-being.
Life
is energy
Our electrical
systems are vital to our physical health. What could be more obvious?
When the energy stops flowing, we die. Ask your doctor. No one disputes
it. In fact, civilization has known about this for millenniums.
About 5,000 years ago, the Chinese discovered a complex system of
energy circuits that run throughout the body.
These energy
circuits...or meridians as they are called...are the centerpiece
of Eastern health practices and form the basis for modern day acupuncture,
acupressure and a wide variety of other healing techniques.
Out
of balance
This energy
system holds the key to many of the disturbances we experience in
our daily lives. When it is out of balance, our emotional life could
be compared to a car that is in desperate need of a tune up.
"The
cause of all negative emotions is
a distruption in the body's energy system"
The Emotional
Freedom Technique contends that this disruption in the body's energy
system is the cause of all negative emotions. With remarkable consistency,
EFT relieves symptoms by an unusual (but scientific) routine of
tapping with the fingertips on specific points on the energy meridians,
which neutralizes disruptions in your body's electrical system.
What
can EFT do for me?
Developed over
the last 10 years by American Gary Craig, here’s what he has
to say about this modern miracle that has its roots in ancient Chinese
medicine…
“I
think EFT will dramatically change your world. I know it seems like
a bit of a stretch at this point but these techniques may compete
in importance with the Declaration of Independence. For some, they
are the Declaration of Independence. By independence I mean freedom
from negative emotions.
"That
is, freedom that allows you to blossom and rise above whatever hidden
hurdles keep you from performing to your capacity. I mean freedom
from years of self doubt...or call reluctance...or grief over the
loss of a loved one...or anger...or negative memories involving
rape or other forms of abuse.
"I
mean freedom to earn that greater income, make those business calls,
start that new business, improve your golf score, lose that weight,
approach people with ease or become a public speaker, singer or
comedian. I mean freedom from the anxiety that causes you to take
those pills, drink that alcohol, smoke those cigarettes or raid
that refrigerator.
"I
mean freedom to express love easily and walk upon this planet with
grace and confidence. I mean freedom from intense fears...or phobias...or
anxiety...or panic attacks...or post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)...or
addictive cravings...or depression...or guilt...or...or...or...
Like I said, I think EFT will dramatically change your world.”
Gary Craig – Developer of the Emotional Freedom Technique
How
can tapping possibly achieve all that?
As you gently
tap or press on a point, whilst repeating a neutralizing affirmation,
neural receptors under the skin convert the pressure to an electrical
impulse that is transmitted to the brain. The tapping serves to
release the blockages that are created when a person thinks about
or becomes involved in an emotionally disturbing circumstance. When
this blockage is released, the emotions come into balance. The spoken
affirmations ensure that your mind is "tuned in" to the
problem from which you want relief. “Tuning in” to the
specific problem will bring about the energy disruptions involved,
which are then balanced by the tapping.
Most energetic
imbalances may be partially or completely relieved within a short
time using this process – often a matter of minutes, hours,
days, or weeks rather than the months or even years required with
more conventional therapies. Where EFT cannot usually cure (such
as cases of degnerative diseases) symptoms may be relieved through
simple daily repetition of the process.
EFT
and Coaching
It very important
to be specific with the affirmation used as the more complicated
issues often have a number of different facets or layers to them,
as parts or aspects. This is particularly where coaching comes in.
Many people find that they don’t know where to start on an
issue and how to uncover the specific thoughts or beliefs to use
as part of the affirmation.
Other times
persistance is required where psychological reversal (what could
be referred to as self-sabatoge) is present. The difficulty can
be that if somebody tends towards self-sabatoge, the chances of
them being persistant in using the Emotional Freedom Technique is
reduced. Some form of accountability, either by having regular sessions
with a coach or EFT practicioner or an EFT ‘buddy’ greatly
helps with this.
Coaching with
EFT is not only helpful for clearing away what has been holding
you back. It can also be used to help you to focus on what you want,
your goals, your life vision.
This way, EFT
is helping with both sides of the personal development coin, which
is essential for lasting changes. (For more information on this
come along to a FREE Help!
I'm a Self Help Junkie... teleclass.)
What
could I use EFT on?
EFT is incredibly
versatile and has been used confidently by hundreds of therapists,
counsellors and coaches on thousands of clients with successes on
even the most difficult problems, by relieving imbalances in their
clients' energy systems.
EFT has been
known to help with all of the following, and more:
• Addictive Cravings • Allergies • Anxiety and
Panic Attacks • Anger • Compulsions and Obsessions •
Concentration • Confidence • Depression and Sadness
• Dyslexia • Fears and Phobias • Grief and Loss
• Guilt • Insomnia • Jealousy • Negative
Memories • Nightmares • Pain Management • Physical
Conditions and Healing • Peak Performance • PTSD •
Self Image • Sexual Abuse Issues • Shyness • Traumatic
Memories •
Memorizing the
mechanics of EFT is simple. Applying it is almost as easy and you
can become proficient with the mechanics after just a handful of
tries. However, if you wish to master it, as with any skill, you
will need to diligently study the available materials.
How
can I find out more?
For more details
on how to learn to use EFT by yourself, download a free 179-page
manual at Gary Craig's EFT website (www.emofree.com)
Alternatively,
contact me on +44 (0)845 6442301 or una@synchronicity4u.com
for a chat about the Emotional Freedom Technique, to book a session
or to discover how coaching with EFT could help you get the life
you really want!
EFT is also
taught as a part of the CoachingGym4U
programme and will be used and referred to frequently across
the year's teleclasses, e-courses and member's only discussion forum.
Disclaimer: While the Emotional Freedom
Technique has produced remarkable clinical results, it must still
be considered to be in the experimental stage and thus practitioners
and the public must take complete responsibility for their use of
it.
In
addition, Una Doyle is not a licensed health professional and offers
EFT as a Confidence Coach. Those who want to discuss the use of
the Emotional Freedom Technique for a specific emotional problem
with a professional in the mental health field are referred the
Referral section at www.emofree.com,
where a number of licensed practitioners who use the Emotional Freedom
Technique in their practices are listed.
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