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The Wallflower You probably are a very nice person. So ‘nice' in fact that perhaps people dump on you a bit. They might expect you to give a lot without you getting a return. That's not to say that giving without getting a return can't be a good thing. Just that if it's always you that does the running, always you that is making the compromises, always you that gives people second, third, fourth chances… You could be shy meeting new people. You've probably got so many interesting things to say but have difficulty expressing them – after all you could be criticised or laughed at. The last thing you want to do is to draw attention to yourself, as you are most likely very self-conscious. Unless it's a way of hiding yourself, by acting or somehow being a character. You might have had a hard time growing up, perhaps being bullied for instance. Even if you have a sunny disposition on the outside, you most likely are very down on yourself, very critical. “I couldn't do [whatever]”, “Who me, do a great job? Oh, [so and so] helped too, it was nothing.” Now are you ready to put yourself and your life first? |
